Confidence Success Stories

Here’s how our advice has affected our reader’s and participant’s self-confidence:


“…your research was the eventual turning point in my personality”

The thing that got me from a socially anxious person to be the most connected person at work now is doing a lot of reading, which is how I found your program(and your research was the eventual turning point in my personality).

– Norton, UK


“I’ve met more of my peers these past 3 weeks than entire last year.”

I’ve met more of my peers these past 3 weeks than entire year last year. I’ve realized I have no reason to keep my head down in life, so to speak. Thanks again!

– Adriana, Poland


“Going back to school, I felt much better. I wasn’t afraid to compliment people and talk to them. I haven’t had an awkward moment in a long time.”

Last year, I joined a new school. I knew no one, and I was so scared.

I was unable to talk to any of the people I thought were like me, or were “cool”. I looked up to people in a way that made me feel so uncomfortable around them. I looked up to them like they were gods.

I looked up to people in a way that made me feel so uncomfortable around them. […]  I became friends with people who I thought were lame, only because I wasn’t afraid of them.

I became friends with people who I thought were lame, only because I wasn’t afraid of them. I signed up to so many mailing lists and subscribed to many channels on YouTube to make myself more confident around people

I enjoyed the stories you posted and the way you write your emails. Some other people I subscribed to wrote long, boring texts which didn’t give me any affect.

However, I enjoyed your short stories and theories. This year, going back to school, I felt much better. I wasn’t afraid to compliment people and talk to them. I haven’t had an awkward moment in a long time. The last awkward moment I remember having was in August.

I have also mastered the art of saying no. This came naturally, as I don’t remember ever reading anything about it. I can easily say no to someone, or argue with them about something. I used to always agree with everything people said, but saying no just came naturally to me. 

– Sue, US


“I can just do what I want to do and not feel worried”

Expecting that others will just like me allowed me to cut through doubts and worry about whether people like me or not. Once that’s gone from my mind I can just do what I want to do and not feel worried. Making friends is much less complicated this way.

I went out with 2 colleagues and the more we bonded the positivity and playfulness increased. I was fully participating in the event and adding to it I guess.

Thanks for that.

– Jacob, Canada


“Earlier I was afraid of what people would think if I said something or behaved in a particular way which might be not according to their standards”

Earlier I was afraid of what people would think if I said something or behaved in a particular way which might be not according to their standards. Now I am not. As I have realized that we are just humans we are bound to make mistakes and do awkward things at times.

– Louise, US


“I feel I’m a lot less awkward and find making conversation and friends a lot more of a natural process rather than thinking it was like cracking a code”

I am a lot more confident in social situations, I feel I’m a lot less awkward and find making conversation and friends a lot more of a natural process rather than thinking it was like cracking a code. I now approach more people in an attempt to make friends or start a conversation than I previously did and for this I thank you very much!!

– Armaan Chana in London, UK


“…it is truly changing my life for the better, strengthening my overall confidence and other skills crucial to a more social life”

As time wore on, many of my friends began to leave me, and I had very few close friends with whom to interact, I felt lonely and left out, never having the adequate skill and confidence to make new friends and build ties with others.

[…] With the many techniques, methods, tips and exercises that I have followed from your program, I can honestly say that it is truly changing my life for the better, strengthening my overall confidence and other skills crucial to a more social life.

– John Claveria in Manila, the Philippines


“I had people commenting on how outgoing and confident I was”

I was free. In year 2 and during that summer I had people commenting on how outgoing and confident I was (even how much I talk).

I was in my element, I was embodying it. I had lots of fun and met cool people. One of the best summers ever, and just because of the little things.

Nothing grand really happened but I felt happy.

– Joshua in London, UK


“Today I implemented your advice and instantly felt more self-confident around him”

I have always felt nervous around my boss. Today I implemented your advice and instantly felt more self confident around him.

He is now much nicer to me and I feel in five years from now my career will have progressed much further as a direct result of this.

– Jonnie


All testimonials are authentic. Some have been shortened and corrected for spelling and grammar. In some cases, names have been changed.

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