27 Mar 2017

This is Terrible Advice

Over the years I’ve read so much terrible advice on how to improve socially. It’s not just that it doesn’t help - it can even make you worse off and hurt your social life. Here are some of the worst ones: “Just be more social” This one is so stupid…

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01 Dec 2016

How Your Looks Affect Your Social Life

I often see statements like “Looks don’t matter” “It’s the inside that counts” This frustrates me because it’s not true. In reality, looks do matter (and everyone knows it). The first moment, the first second when we meet someone, our looks are all that matters. After all, that’s the only…

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