42 Signs a Girl Likes You (How to Tell if She Has a Crush)

How do you know if a girl likes you or even has a crush on you?

My name is Viktor Sander. I’ve coached hundreds of men to have more success with women.

Here’s a list of 42 signs to help you understand if a girl likes you.

1. Is she laughing at all your jokes?

This has always been a BIG GREEN SIGN of interest for me. I’ve seen it both in most of the girls I’ve dated and also in girls my friends have dated. If she got a crush on you, she will most likely think all your jokes are super funny even if they aren’t.

Read more: How to be funny (for un-funny people).

2. Is she mirroring you?

Mirroring means that her body language, posture, or even what she’s saying reflects what you said or did. So if you take a sip of your glass, if she’s mirroring that, she’ll also take a sip of her glass. Or if you cross your legs and she does the same, that’s also mirroring.

Take note that mirroring is done subconsciously when she has a very good rapport with you. But it can also be done consciously if she really wants to impress you or bond with you. It’s a great sign either way.

3. Has she added you on social media?

This one means she wants to stay in touch and is at least a little bit interested in you. It also makes it a lot easier for you to take initiative.

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4. Is she writing you long texts?

Is she always giving you short answers, or is she giving you a small novel as a reply?

If her texts are about the same length or longer than yours, that’s great. It’s especially good if they’re longer than yours.

If you’re usually giving her long replies, but not getting the same in return, it means you’re probably too eager. In that case, it’s often good to step back a bit and try to match her better. Give her some space so she wants to come back to you again.

5. Is she teasing you?

Is it mean teasing or more flirty and light-hearted?

Most forms of teasing (even mean) are usually a sign she’s interested in you. I LOVE it when a girl I like tries to tease me. It means she’s trying to create a flirty vibe between you and that she wants a reaction from you. Just don’t take it too seriously and try to have fun with her!

6. Is she doing the “lean in”?

If she’s leaning in toward you, that’s a sign she’s eager to get your attention or get her message across. And in the best case, it also means she’s eager to get closer to you.

7. Is she getting close to you than others?

If you’re in a conversation and you feel like she’s edging closer to you, or as if she’s almost uncomfortably too close to you, that’s a good sign. It could mean she’s attracted to you and wants to feel closer to you both physically and mentally.

Take note that different cultures have different “personal spaces”. So, if she’s from a different culture than you, it might just be because of that.

8. Is she’s doing the “lip bite thing”?

Biting herself lightly in the lip is a flirty and cute (or sexy) signal. If she’s biting herself in the lip while you’re talking, that’s great. She’s probably into you.

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9. Is she smiling toward you?

If she’s smiling toward you from afar, that’s an invitation to approach her. Or she’s flirting with you. (I’m assuming you didn’t just forget to put your pants on when leaving home. I almost did that once, not recommended!)

If she’s smiling toward you when you’re in a conversation, that’s a sign she likes you. Especially if she has a light smile while you’re not even joking.

10. Is she doing “the lick”?

Is she licking her lips or teeth? This is similar to biting her lips, but a bit more subtle and less flirty. Still a good sign she might like you.

11. Is she blinking more than normal?

If she’s blinking more than normal, that’s a good sign.

12. Are her pupils larger than normal?

If her pupils get large when you’re in a conversation, you’re doing something right. This one is quite subtle because pupil size is primarily determined by light levels, but secondarily attraction can also increase pupil size.

13. Is she keeping eye contact longer than normal?

If you notice that she’s holding eye contact slightly longer than normal, she’s probably interested in you. That kind of eye contact often feels more intense, and can even be a bit weird or uncomfortable.

14. Is she giving you a light smile when you make eye contact?

Say that you’re all standing in a circle, and when someone else is talking, you two get eye contact. Does she give you a slight smile? She likes you.

Same thing if you get eye contact at a distance, in a park or at a bar. A smile is like an invitation to start talking.

15. If there’s background music, what’s her body language, and what is she looking at?

This sign is most useful at a place with some background music, for example at a bar or a club.

If she’s moving in rhythm with the background music and at the same time looking at you, that’s a sign she’s attracted to you. Dancing like that and looking at you is an inviting form of body language. That tells you she wants your attention and is trying to get you to make a move.

16. What’s her posture like around you?

Does she straighten her posture when she gets your attention or is close to you? That means she’s trying to make a good impression on you.

17. What direction is her body facing in a group?

If she’s facing you more often than she’s facing others in a group, that’s a sign she’s into you and values you more than others in the group. This is especially telling if you’re not even the one talking the most in the group.

18. Where are her feet pointing?

If her feet are pointing toward you, that’s a sign in the same line as if her body is facing you. She’s subconsciously focused on you which makes her feet point toward you.

19. Is she fiddling with or straightening her clothes, jewelry, or accessories?

This could be because of nervosity, but it can also be because she wants to look good in front of you. It’s a classic sign of attraction.

20. What direction are her palms facing?

If the palms of their hands are pointed in your direction that signals she might be interested in you. It’s a weak signal, but it’s still positive because it’s part of an open and welcoming body language she has toward you.

21. If you touch her, does she touch you back?

For example, if you touch her arm, does she touch you in a similar area later on in the conversation? If she does reciprocate your touch, that’s a great sign, but it also depends on if she’s touchy with most people or just you?

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Also, shy girls usually don’t touch back because they’re so afraid of messing up.

22. Does she touch you when you talk or in any other situations?

Common areas to touch are arms, shoulders, back, hands, or thighs. Hands or thighs are usually more intimate if she touches those.

23. Do you ever have “peripheral physical contact”?

Peripheral physical contact is when some part of your bodies are in contact with each other when you are doing something else.

For example, if you’re both sitting down and your thighs are barely touching each other. Or if you’re walking side by side and she grabs hold of your arm. That kind of passive physical contact means a lot and can build a lot of tension and attraction.

24. Is she giving you more of her attention than she’s giving others?

For example, if you’re in a group but she seems to direct most of her attention toward you. Or if she’s only asking you questions or if she’s laughing more than others at your jokes.

The more attention she gives you, the more interested she usually is in you.

25. Does she ever blush when you talk or get eye-contact?

She might just be shy, but she’s probably a bit extra self-conscious around you because she likes you.

26. Does she ever seem to look in your direction from afar?

Girls are often a bit sneaky when they want to check you out. They can make it seem like they’re only looking in your direction or just grazing you with her eyes. I’ve even seen girls using window reflections to check out a guy (and to check if he’s looking at them). Sunglasses are even sneakier.

So if she’s looking in your direction, especially if she does it several times, she’s probably checking you out.

27. Does she keep the conversation going when you stop talking?

What happens when you stop talking or can’t come up with anything to say? If she seems eager to get the conversation going again, that’s good. If she excuses herself, she may not be that interested.

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28. Does she always reply when you call, text, or message her?

Quicker responses are often a sign of interest. But many girls are so afraid of appearing needy that they delay their response even if they like you.

29. Who texts or calls first?

If she’s often the one initiating, that’s a very strong sign she’s into you.

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But if she never calls or texts first, that’s a sign of lack of interest. In that case, it can be good to take a step back to see if she will take initiative when you don’t do it before she even has the chance.

30. How often does she text you?

Compare this to how often you text her. It’s the same principle as matching the length of her texts. She’s eager if she’s texting more often than you, and you’re eager if you’re the one texting more often.

31. Does she ever stammer, stutter, or forget what she was about to say in a conversation with you?

This could mean she’s a bit extra shy or self-conscious around you, which tells you that she might also be a bit extra interested in you.

32. Does she back off if you get a bit too close?

If she doesn’t even flinch when you get a bit too close to her personal space, that’s a sign she wants you close to her.

If you take a step closer, and she backs off by a step, that’s a sign she’s a bit more reserved toward you.

33. Does she ever talk about things she wants to do with you or show you?

Planning or mentioning things they want to do with you in the future is a very strong indication of some sort of interest, romantic or platonic.

For example, if you’re talking about a newly opened restaurant and they say “We should go there someday!” or “I’ll show you how amazing that place is!”

34. How does she react when you discover you have something in common?

If she’s happy, that’s good. This sign is extra strong if it’s something very trivial, like that you live in the same part of town, that you’re the same age, or that you both like pizza.

35. Is she asking you any personal questions?

If she is, that’s telling you that she wants to know more about you and is interested in you. The more she asks, the better.

For example, asking about your plans for the future, your childhood, or just about your favorite food.

36. Has she asked about your plans for the day or the weekend?

This might just be empty small talk, but it could also be her trying to open a window where you can meet again and hang out. It’s more likely it’s a sign of interest if she brings it up near the end of the conversation.

37. Does she seem embarrassed if you two are the only two people left in a situation?

If she does but doesn’t do anything to leave the situation, that means she’s just a bit shy but still interested.

A classic example is if you meet her with her girlfriends at a bar, and then all her friends leave, but she stays. That’s perfect because it also means her friends approve of you.

38. Has she told her friends or family about you?

This one is most relevant once you’ve already started dating. But it’s such a huge sign of interest (and approval) that I thought it was worth mentioning. It’s even bigger if she’s from a culture where approval from the family is important.

If she’s told her family, it means she is visualizing and planning a future with you. Congrats!

If she just told her friends, that’s also great, but not as big as her family.

39. Has she ever offered you a massage?

Offering a massage is a nice thing to do, but it’s also a smooth way for a girl to get you both touching each other. (Remember to offer her one back. If you like her!)

40. Does your best friend like you?

Is she acting differently from how she usually behaves? Does she seem jealous or dismissive of other girls you might like? Is she suddenly extra touchy-feely? Is she unusually interested in your interests?

Those are all signs your best friend might have started liking you as more than a friend.

41. How do you know for sure if she’s interested?

You can’t really know for sure if she’s interested just based off of a sign in this list. But there are a few rules you can use to help you know:

  1. Is she regularly showing you different signs of interest?
  2. Does she act differently to others than to you? (So she’s not just flirty with everyone.)
  3. Has she shown any particularly strong signs of interest?

42. Are you still unsure if she likes you?

Write it down in the comments below in as much detail as possible for other commenters to help you out. I’ll also respond to a few of the most interesting comments. But I can’t keep up with all the comments alone, so try to help others by answering them too.

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Viktor is a Counselor specialized in interpersonal communication and relationships. He manages Socialpro’s scientific review board. Follow on Twitter or read more.

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  1. I met my ex my senior year of highschool, we broke up a year later but we started talking about 2 years after the break up, we went on a date and kissed. During that time she had a kid which was alright with me, I ain’t afraid of that kind of commitment. Well, with covid stressing everyone out and her family being toxic, we broke up, and I ended up moving to Michigan (with plans to move back south). We’ve talked on and off over the past year, bur lately something seems off. Her responses to me don’t seem dry as they were a couple months ago, and she messaged first and a week later I messaged first and we’ve been talking pretty consistently since then. I made her laugh a little, she told me what was going on, I made a bit of flirty joke and she mentioned I was far away like she was disappointed, I said I could be closer and she asks when I’m moving back. I tell her my target date, and I said I had to go, she calls me a butt, and I tease her back. and later on she starts sending me pictures of her new haircut, she calls me cute and I tell her she’s as pretty as ever, responds thanks with a smiling blush emoji, I flirt with her a bit and she brings up that I’m all the way over there like she’s disappointed or just teasing me. I flirt a little bit again and tell her I’ll be close again soon and flirt with her again (she hurt her leg so I said something about massaging it for her and I’d bring the baby oil, which she likes a baby oil massage) and I end it with only if you’d have me though. She laugh and says she’ll think about, and today she tells me what’s going on without me having to ask, after making her laugh more. I know she’s still a bit cautious, she always has been with guys, but she seems to be comfortable with me. I don’t want to come out and ask her, nor do I really want to rush things. Am I just overthinking all of this? I still have feelings for her and would definitely like to try again…

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  2. Sooo, we go to a church thing right every Sunday night. She’s friends with my aunt, and we got into the car to go to taco bell(we were in separate cars) and she told my aunt she thought I was cute and wanted to tell me but didn’t want it to be awkward. Then she brought up dating! But didn’t mention me…Am I just paranoid because I don’t know if she for sure likes me or not?? I like her a lot, but am not too good at showing it, Any tips? And do you think she’s interested in me or she just thought I was cute?

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  3. I’m getting mixed signals and it’s the WORST!!! It’s so confusing. There seemed to be this “weird” and very unexpected connection between us last summer. I caught her looking at me and then when our eyes met, it felt like electricity went through me.
    Now, we still see each other about once a week in this same public place that we frequent. We have chatted. She smiles at me and holds my gaze. She leans inward to me (away from others in the group). She asks questions. Now, the confusing part…she gave me her number and I gave her mine. We were supposed to meet for coffee (as in hopefully strike up a friendship). I waited about 4-5 days, and then I initiated a text. She never replied. When I saw her again, she was very nervous around me, but the environment was not right to ask if she received my text. So, drab.

    Any thoughts…should I just leave it alone or should I try to communicate openly and honestly with her when the setting allows? I don’t want to make her uncomfortable, but I also do not like unsettled feelings.

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  4. So there’s this girl and we always be falling asleep on FaceTime with each other and she always is sending me these emojis ❤️,🥺,🥰 when I compliment her but when I ask if we can start like talking talking she changes the conversation I need some advice please help

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    • Sounds like you might both be young.
      Clearly she is comfortable with you.
      Although is difficult to gauge if she is romantically intrested.
      Does she show intrest in what you have to say? Or does she do all the talking.
      Does she see you in person also?
      Maybe she is avoiding the topic.
      Maybe just tell her and then you will know.
      In this situation it does mean you are allowed to still be talking to other girls.
      You probably should be.
      Is not good to be putting all your eggs in one basket.
      Speak to other girls if u can and enjoy it.
      If she is intrested she may say something,or appear jealous.
      If she says nothing or says she is not intrested, it wont be as disappointing because you already looking at other options.
      If you play the game respecfully you can come back to her later.

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  5. This girl i like keeps coming up to me and goes to ask me a question then sais she forgot the question. But im not sure if she likes me. We’ve known eachother scence 1st grade.

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  6. I *never* get approach signals from any woman and as such I make a point of never expressing romantic/sexual interest in women I find attractive. I have many women friends – but, at 36, I’ve never kissed or been on a date. My friends tell me I need to put myself out there, approach women I’m attracted to, talk to them and ask them out. To me, since there are never signals, it’s clear the outcome will always be negative, and therefore there’s no point in trying.

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    • @Paul…
      Straight up, it sounds as though you have created a very negative self-fulfilling prophecy. Perhaps, you had some bad experiences when you were a bit younger and/or your personality may influence it.
      I am a woman though, and I can tell you that, if you put out there what you put out in your comment, a woman will pick up on that in a heart beat. She may be interested in you or find you attractive, BUT that interest/attraction will instantly fizzle when you talk or exude that fear and negativity about yourself.
      Try to change your viewpoint …quit saying that women never look at me or it will always end badly…never and always are very extreme, black and white ways of seeing things.
      Start with baby steps…first say to yourself something positive before attempting to meet someone…I hope to meet a nice woman and have a light and relaxed conversation, but if that does not happen it will be okay and I will try again next time. THEN, put yourself out there for having just a friendly conversation. Next time, try something a little more if there is interests…try a flirty comment or a longer than normal gaze with her, etc.
      I hope you can view yourself in a more positive life one day; otherwise, you will continue to get back what you are currently putting out there. Best wishes.

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  7. We’ve been talking on and off since July, goes through weird phases of responding soon after to not responding at all for a week or 2 days or whatever talk about everything blah blah blah. She blocked me on Twitter in November by mistake, but she said it was Twitter who did it not her which I know is 100% a lie. Next thing I see is that she tweets the guy she’s been talking to who and thought she was to marry hasn’t talked to her for a week. Naturally, I’m curious because not once has this dude ever been brought up until I asked her about him. I told her based on everything I know and any guy will say it, move on with your life. I wasn’t saying that to be a dick or anything I know based on experience of it also happening to me and what others have said. She told me that he’s in a different country and his culture upbringing is not big on social media or phones which could be the biggest load of crap I’ve ever heard, unless he’s a monk. Anyway, Basically txting and talking still, she also on occasion sends Voice messages which to me was odd…a few weeks ago she told me that she had an interview to work on Columbus for the senate and asked me about getting coffee after her interview but then had to be back by 2:30pm. I said sure and I didn’t hear from her for a full day after that she finally says sorry for not responding then said she isn’t able to make it now because she has to meet the senator afterwards…now I’ll admit I got a little mad and annoyed I responded with “K”….

    Then the weirdest thing happened in that her response was “he said K”
    “Do you know what k means?”
    “It means: 😞😠😒”

    So I said why did you say he?

    She said because it’s in third person…but I’m thinking was that meant for me? I apologized for saying K as I really didn’t think before sending which I have to live with. Then a day later says “my whole schedule is about to change so if I don’t respond for like 3 days that’s why” I’m like okay that’s weird to say. And it was mostly true until a few days ago. I posted a quote in my Instagram story about if someone ever tells you a response in a message days later and says sorry I was busy. That’s bullshit it takes 3 seconds to respond. If you get that answer. Move on”. Later that night all of Sudden she text me late at night with like 12 messages talking about how exhausted she was and needs a routine, she will know her schedule soon and as of now it’s this and this, blah blah blah. Hope you’re doing well stuff like that. Getting a lot of mixed messages

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  8. She invited my to a class she loves… I attended, waiting patiently outside for the other class to finish. All of a sudden she turns up and said “you made it” – walks towards me and gives me a close hug. After class finishes, she asked if I will attend this class every week? I said I’ll think about it.

    She’s also invited me to another class… HOT YOGA??? What do you think? She has a boyfriend and talks about him alot…

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  9. I met a girl through dating App and met up with at lunch talked for about two hours, we left she gave me a hug and left into her car. She sends me her phone number through the dating app that night. I was going to church the following day and texted to her you are welcome to join me. She texts back thank you for offer of church, but maybe another time.

    Does she mean she is not interested in me at all or just not ready to go to church with me at this early stage? Is she blowing me off? Should I text her in a few days and ask on a real date but no Church?

    Thanks

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  10. I am a woman who is in love with my best friend who is also a woman. We have know each other for 2 years and she has been in and out of relationships, meanwhile I’ve been single and the one she cry’s to after a break up. Everyone around us thinks that we are a couple, we have a very close relationship and all the signs have been there. I haven’t made a physical move on her bc I respect her and don’t want to push her away, I tried to tell her how I feel and she replied that she’s not sexually attracted to me. But her body language, jealousy and flirting says otherwise, she’s a tease it’s almost like she wants me to want her and likes the emotional connection that we have but doesn’t want to ruin the friendship. I’m confused bc we really bring out the best in each other, and I just don’t believe that she feels nothing for me. I’m not sure what else to do, should I just wait it out?

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  11. I really like this chick we’ve been good friends for a long time, until recently around 3 months ago we started hanging out more/making plans but we never use the friend word on eachother. I catch her looking at me all the time, laughing at my jokes, showing interest in convo, always relating to me trying to one up, playfully touching me, telling me I smell good, keeping eye contact, giving me puppy eyes leaning in, asking questions, blushing when I do certain things to make her smile, I even catch her getting jealous sometimes or it could just be me but i’ve slipped and called her dude or bro on accident and her attitude completely changes before she’s normal again. But when we aren’t together i feel a disconnect like im limited and she doesn’t text as much sometimes, but I always find a way to bring it back, in person it’s magic, I just don’t want to lose what we have and don’t know how to keep it up without seeming desperate cause I don’t know if she is into me I could bet that she is but sometimes it feels like she isn’t and I want to respect her boundaries cause that’s love right? Do I have enough hints to go in for the kill? So much has happened it’s hard to tell if she really wants this. What are the odds i lose her or make her mine

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  12. I’m 14 there is a girl I like and during class she got really close to me and was doing some of the things above like getting close to me and leaning in close enough she was touching me and sitting up very close to me and was helping me work on assignment and was giving a lot of suggestions. And then out of nowhere the said that she got hurt playing with friends and that it was funny and that she would send me the video. And her posture was very straight. and all of her friend that were around her talks and makes jokes with them like every second and all of her attention was on me and she never talked to her friends that whole time. Oh and one more thing she does have a boyfriend but he came out and she didn’t even look at him and it doesn’t seem like there very close and n relationship. Thanks!

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  13. I Think she likes me this helped a lot
    like she is always laughing No matter what where deling together is that sole thing? And she is always trying to be alone with med is that a sign?

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  14. So there’s this girl which I really like, I had feelings for her for about 2 years now and it’s already became an open secret that which she also knew about it. When I talk to her she gives me cold responses like “have you watched the latest episode of AOT?” Then she would answer my question and go back to her phone, it kinda hurts when she does that but at the same time whenever when we are in a group her body is directed at mine, when I talk to her she would hide her face with her hands and sometimes act cute but it most times she gives me responses with irritation I think, I don’t know. Is she interested in me? Or not?

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    • i have been in to her for a pretty long time now. And she is always laughing at the things i say she also often tries to be alone with me

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  15. I like this girl from a place I go every summer for two months. I have nown her for so long and I like her. I have been texting a lot to her but she doesn’t always reply. She just finished exams and I’m not sure if that’s what’s affecting it. One thing I see is that she does some things beside me that she wouldn’t do around other people so that may be a sign she like me but I am not sure.

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  16. I’ve worked with someone for a few years. Over the last year we’ve become close. We text every day but only get to see each other once or twice a week. When we see each other we are always laughing and talk comes effortlessly. I’ve also noticed that the last few times we’ve been together she started standing and sitting really close to me so that we’re touching. And every time she hands me something her hand touches mine. I notice a lot of the things on this list like most of our coworkers have said something to me about us being a couple. The biggest confusion is she lives with her boyfriend but she keeps talking to me and other people about how bad things are and how she’s going to leave him soon. Is she just looking for attention or is there something more going on?

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    • It seems that she might be trying to get you reassured that she will be available to you sometime soon, I dunno, but you should just wait a bit more and see if this is because of some experience or not.

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  17. I and my girlfriend hve been dating for like 3months and the first two months was great the fire btwn us was un-quenchable but recently it seems shes no longer in to me she doesn’t call or texts as often as she used to and im kinda frustrated cuz she rarely reply my texts and barely returns my call i don’t know what to do anymore

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    • She’s probably losing intrest and/or some kind of event happend in her life, but I think you should try to get her to go with you somewhere casual, like to get a cup of coffee or something.

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  18. Well this girl I like has done most of these things but im not sure how she feels about me because she is late 20s and I am early 40s. she wants my attention I know that. she asks me to come see her at work. she hugs me a lot. she’s asked me to have dinner with her. we have hung out a few times. I asked her to dinner one time and she never replied. I let it go because I figured maybe she was just busy with her college work. waited a week and asked her again…nothing. so it seems she wants to be the one to set boundaries on where we go so not even sure if she’s worth the time. can you say friend zone ehhhh lol oh well. at least I tried asking her out though. her actions basically told me to walk away from trying for anything more. ill be her friend I guess but F it im moving on.

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  19. So the girl that I am not sure if she like me does basically all the things above but she calls me her best friend. What does that mean?

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    • friend zoned. ask her out. the only way you’re gonna know is you have to ask her out. if she shows all the signs or many of them she’s at least showing interest. if you don’t ask her out she will most likely lose interest fast and move on. you’ll definitely notice when her frequency of doing these signs slows down.

      im in similar situation. girl I like shows many of same signs. hugs me a lot, when a song she likes comes on she sings to me and dances, she leans into my personal space all the time, mirrors my actions, stares at me from afar, etc…. much more. we used to actually text a lot. mornings and night but that frequency has slowed down. she says she doesn’t reply to texts as much as snapchat but she’s yet to add me on that. so who knows.

      but for you just ask the girl out. worse she can say is no. just tell her you feel you noticed signs. its hard to do sometimes because you get afraid you’ll ruin a good thing but all you’re doing is making it worse for yourself. some girls do not want to chase men. they want to be chased and if you wait too long you’ll miss out. ask her out man. something simple like for coffee or lunch. make it simple and not so intimate. a lunch date is perfect. you two can talk more and just enjoy each others company. dinner becomes more romantic and she might not be ready for that yet. I mean by all means go for it but if you’re not sure just try for lunch OR many an early dinner..

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  20. Btw i am 12 idk what to do she is in my 1st period over zoom and i really have liked her since i saw her at the begging og the year and she asked for my snapchat but i don’t have phone but when i told her i liked her she said she wanted to know more about me and whenever i ask her questoin she always asked hbu i was the guy who just commented btw

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    • she askedfor your snapchat mabye she likes you given to the fact that she’d onLy seen you in your zoom sessions, but thing is, you’re still young kiddo. focus on your studies first, aight?

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  21. Hi i told a girl that i like her and she said that i was a really nice guy and all but she wanted to get to know more about me please help me!!!

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