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  1. C

    Haha, yes I feel like a squirrel some times. But instead of searching for nuts to collect I searching for Them so I can run from them like there where the predatore. the problem is that to that predator, Im the only squirrel in the room. And the rest of the group are lions. So the question is – are the rest of the lions going to protect me from this predator..? Do they have the compassion to help if i have a reaction?

    • David Morin

      I think you’d be surprised how many squirrels there are, even if they all look like lions. 🙂

  2. I get jumpier because I’m in the back of my mind I’m trying to avoid people. I say “in the back of my mind” because in a way I don’t want to avoid them, but if one has social anxiety, it’s just natural to be inclined to avoid them. And so if one is trying to avoid, then you suddenly see someone you get jumpy.

    That is an awww-some photo. However, I’m a bit envious. I’ve never had a squirrel come that close to me, and this in spite of my love of squirrels. I read somewhere that squirrels might have rabies and therefore you shouldn’t get too close to a squirrel? Perhaps that’s why no squirrel has ever come close to me. Who knows? LOL

    • David Morin

      Thank you for sharing Jean!

      As far as I know, squirrels/chipmunks don’t have rabies and they are so friendly here in NYC. Back in Sweden, I was super lucky to come within 10 feet of a squirrel.

  3. Kristina

    When I am nervous or insecure, I feel like I am the prey in a group of predators, and it gets really frustrating! It sometimes even feels like the people in the group can “smell” my fear and think less of me. I know I often exaggerate it in my thoughts, creating a vicious cycle, so I do my best to break it and become comfortable and unafraid, like a predator as you mentioned in your article 🙂

    • David Morin

      That’s great you’re working on it Kristina! Thank you for sharing 🙂

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