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People love being around someone that is fun. Qualities fun people possess are a sense of humor, friendliness, they are fun to talk to and they are open-minded. If you struggle in this area, here are some tips on how to be more fun.
First, you must be comfortable around others. If you are shy or quiet, it’s harder for people to talk to you because your shyness makes them feel awkward. Instead, people flock to those that are confident, respectful and command attention. You don’t have to be bubbly all the time or a stand up comedian, but you must be confident and engaging when talking to others. Find out about their interests, joke respectfully with them and show you want to spend time with them.
Another tip on how to be more fun to talk to is to be energetic. If you speak in a monotone voice, others won’t view you as fun. Instead, practice your voice inflection. Be excited about great news; practice your delivery with jokes. Don’t be afraid to be yourself in front of others. All of us possess a wonderful personality, and the more you’re willing to let that out, the more some will draw to you.
When spending time with friends, it’s important to engage them. If you go to a gathering and do nothing but sit around, people will perceive you as boring. Therefore, make the most of your social time by walking up and talking to others. Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself to strangers at social occasions. People love those that have confidence and are engaging.
Also, don’t be afraid to try new things. A big part of being fun is being open-minded to trying new activities. Now this doesn’t mean you need to compromise who you are, as this will draw the wrong crowd. Instead, find things you have always wanted to try and invite some friends to do them. Further, be willing to try activities your friends suggest. Don’t be afraid to mix things up and add variety to your social life. By doing so, you show your friends you are fun because you are adventurous.
In closing, you don’t have to alter your personality to show others you are fun. By practicing these tips, it allows you to bring out your personality to your friends, and you will be more fun to be around. Moreover, if you are open to mixing up activities and trying new things, you will attract others because they enjoy those that are adventurous.