“I find it hard to talk to people. The things that I say aren’t really things people say. How do I know if I’m awkward?”
In the quiz below, you’ll learn if you are socially awkward and get several ideas for how to stop being awkward.
Many people worry about whether they come across as socially awkward, particularly in conversations with people they don’t know well. Our mistakes feel like they are occurring under a spotlight, an effect so strong that psychologists refer to this as the Spotlight Effect.
It can be hard to know whether you appear awkward to others, especially if you have Aspergers or social anxiety. To help with this, in this test we are going to look at objective observations that you can use as a guide as to whether you may be socially awkward, and ways to deal with this if you are.
It’s important to remember that socially awkward behavior isn’t necessarily a personality trait.
I’ve felt socially awkward in more situations than I can count. The methods here are about learning new social skills, rather than having to change who you are.
- Part 1: Inner monologue
- Part 2: Body language
- Part 3: Conversational topics and content
- Part 4: Conversations with groups