I’ve gotten a bunch of questions from you like the ones below. So today, I want to talk about how to know if someone wants to keep talking – or end the conversation. “How would I know whether the person…

My Number 1 Technique to Never Run Out of Things to Say

Imagine you are talking to someone, and the topic you’re on slowly dies out… Awkward silence is approaching and it is like the conversation just hit a wall! Luckily – there’s a simple mindset we can use to look at…

How Your Looks Affect Your Social Life

I often see statements like “Looks don’t matter” “It’s the inside that counts” This frustrates me, because it’s not true. In reality, looks do matter (and everyone knows it). The first moment, the first second when we meet someone, our…

How to Improve Socially without Doing “Out of Your Comfort Zone-Exercises”

You’ve probably seen this picture before: It creates the impression that we need to be somewhere we’re not. So, we try to follow the advice we hear in self help books. “Escape your comfort zone” “Approach ten strangers at a…

When Life Gives you Shitty Cards - Do This

This guy made a life-changing realization, right here: “I spent years in therapy “because” I was too ugly to get a girlfriend. My therapist insisted I was using that as an excuse. I balked. Why would I make up a…

The fastest way to come off as self confident (Video + analysis)

A few days ago I told you about how I read a books on self confidence and thought everything would change. But then, when push came to shove, my brain froze. Nothing had changed. I basically got a really strong…

Research: Setting up goals won't help change your life, you need a daily “System”

I had just started my journey on “self improvement” and had a very clear goal if who I wanted to be. My goal felt so real I could almost touch it. I was super motivated. I read books on the…

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